Botox for kids mum loses custody

Kerry Campbell has lost custody of her 8 year old daughter after injecting her live on Good Morning America. Child Protection Officials took Britney over the weekend from her home in San Francisco while they investigate her mother for child abuse. Took them long enough.
more details to follow in the week.
Update

In an interview with The Sun Kerry has done a complete 180. After bragging about how she is injecting botox and fillers into her daughter, as well as waxing her, back in March she is now feeling the magnatude of what she has done to her daughter its just sad that her daughter had to be taken away for her to realise what she has been doing is abuse. I dont know whether I fully trust what she says, it seems to be a bit of I'll say what they want to hear to stop me being a hate figure and get my daughter back but dont believe it.

What Kerry says to The Sun:

 "I cannot put into words the remorse I feel.

I am going to seek therapy for my obsession with looks so I will no longer push my insecurities about appearance on to her.

I will not use Botox on her ever again.

I honestly felt I was helping her. I regret doing it and remain committed to being a good mother and being reunited with my daughter.

I never wanted to harm Britney in any way and I thought I was helping her.

What has happened is devastating and I realise now that I was wrong.

I realise now what I did was wrong. I was so consumed with making Britney a star that I didn't realise how bad my behaviour was.

I am not emotionally unstable or an evil mother. Britney is the light of my life and I was trying to help her.

I can no longer bring myself to look at the comments on websites covering the story. It makes me feel like I am being beaten up.

I want Sun readers to know that I love my daughter with all my heart. People have said so many horrible things about me, when all I wanted was the best for my child."

One thing that is true, she definitely needs help and whereas she may not be an evil mother she isnt a good one. It will take more than I'm sorry to make her a good mother, that is even if she is allowed to have her daughter back although it has been mentioned that supervised visits would be the start of the family repairing itself. However I am slightly worried when a family member has been quoted saying:

"Kerry is a fantastic mother and she was simply trying to give her daughter a leg-up. Britney has shown absolutely no ill effects from the treatment and has always been a happy child.

"To say she is being abused is plain ridiculous." 

Its abuse when you inject poison into your child. Its abuse when you cause them pain for no reason (depending where she waxes it hurts as does getting injected by a needle). It is also abuse when you mess with your 8 year old daughters head and distort their vision of themselves. That poor girl will hopefully recover and not have any issues with her face and body but the chances of that are slim unless she is given the support that she is beautiful and doesnt need poison to make her so. 

 

Stupid In Laws

Well since last year I have stopped all contact with hubbys brother after a nasty argument that was started by something that didnt even involve him and his wife but they decided to get involved and make a thing, with doing this other things came out and so came the exclusion from monkey and my life. Hubby is able to see his niece and nephew whenever he so chooses even their parents for that matter but monkey is not. Now it may not be fair but since this has been in place its been peaceful to some extent at our house. Not that we saw them all that often before this. 

Its their youngests birthday in a couple of weeks and hubby texted to see what he could get and you would not believe the reply. Apparently as their youngest has never met monkey (which is a lie for starters they were just both too little to remember) there is no point in buying presents. Now Im happy about this because they buy stupid or crappy gifts anyway (a talking photo frame for a 9 month old for xmas with a photo of their kids in - seriously who does that? Oh and a cheap plastic drum and an ugly pooh brown outfit when monkey is in pale blues, disney or dungarees - all of which can be picked up for cheaper than the outfit they bought) Whereas I spent ages (yes I did) trying to find the best value for the money and the best toys for the money for their xmas and birthdays. To deny my hubby of getting something for his brothers child something on their first birthday is ridiculous and Im glad that he sent that back in the text although I believe the words prickish were involved. 

I do like that the longer this exclusion goes on the more idiotic they react which just goes toward my original argument of why I dont want my monkey around them. They are toxic people who use those around them and to be honest Im glad they are out of my life.

Virgin on the Ridiculous?

Reading about a woman who at 44 is a virgin. The reason? Apparently there is too much sex around and women have it at the end of the night like they were buying a bag of chips.

Hmm well im not sure about that. 

I was in uni and engaged before I had it. For me it was a big decision and I had been with my fiance a long time. We had a few false starts where I was ready but wasnt and so didnt. When we did it was funny - yes funny and maybe a little awkward but it felt right and I enjoyed. We stayed together a few years but then he decided that he wanted to sample off the menu (other women). It hit me hard but when my next relationships came along I didnt jump into bed with them either. I maybe an exception because I dont drink, smoke, do drugs, etc. Even my friends are similar, obviously they drink and some smoke but only one can I call promiscuous lol she loves sex and makes no excuse for it and nor should she. She will have it with whom ever she can when ever she can. She is a grown woman who has come out of a relationship she was in since her teens and is letting her hair down.

That to me is better than getting married but having fooled around with the best man and other men in the years prior to the wedding, which is another friend I know. 

I think young girls are pressurised into lots of things too early like drinking, drugs, smoking and sex. Its crazy and the worst offenders are generally other girls/peers/friends.  At 16 all you want to do is act grown up and they think by drinking etc it makes them grown up when it doesnt it just shows up how young they really are. You sleep with your boyfriend because you dont want to lose him but you lose him anyway and then you get the rep of being a slag. If he says "if we dont have sex we are over" then girls should have the self worth to kick him to the curb. 

I do feel like this 44 yr old has missed out on something special - the relationship between husband and wife (not the sex) but the bond that we have and the creation of our child.