Delta & Brian Move On

A month maybe, thereabouts after their split and Delta has been papped holding hands with Nick Jonas. After 4 years engaged it took her all of a month to find someone else. Hes 18 to her 26 so a bit of an age gap although about the same as Brian was 31. This photo was taken last week and apparently Brian was gutted, devastated, thought she was in America patching up her broken heart when she was really with a Jonas Bro.It now appears, well in todays paper anyway that Brian has found himself a newgal to patch up his broken heart. Although reports are saying that he met Vogue Williams (parent with a sense of humour maybe - will have to check whether its her stage name) a month ago and so he waited a respectable fortnight before finding someone else. I do feel sorry for his kids because as he said before while hes not in a relationship he has all the time in the world for them, I wonder how much of them hes going to see now he has a new girlfriend.

And the Winners are....

John Rich on Celebrity Apprentice - it came down to him and Marlee, I desperately wanted Marlee but knew it would be John and it was.

Hines Ward on Dancing With The Stars - it was originally Chelsea, Kirstie and Hines then in a complete shock vote off Chelsea, who I thought had it in the bag was voted off so there was a chance Kirstie would win it but she didnt boo.

Congratulations Kim Kardashian

Congratulations to Kim and Kris on their engagement.

Its about time Kim found a nice guy to settle down with.

I admit it my guilty pleasure is the Kardashians Tv Show although without Kris and Bruce Jenner they tend to suck a little. I didnt enjoy Kim and Kourtney in New York it was boring and Scott is a complete plank. I do however enjoy Khloe and Lamar and cant wait til she has babies, they will come out 6ft!!

Some Rapes are worse than others

At least that is what this man - Ken Clarke - seems to think. While talking on the radio Kenneth Clarke came out with:

I am sick of the censorship that surrounds the issue of rape.

So I shall defy it. Of course all rapes are bad. But some rapes are worse than others.

The extension of rape, to cover any situation where a woman says she has been raped, is a huge difficulty for a fair legal system that relies on actual evidence before deciding guilt.

Even for saying this, I know quite well that I will get raging, lying abuse.

This morning MEP Roger Helmer has come out to defend him by saying that some women are partly to blame for their rape. 

"Imagine a woman voluntarily goes to her boyfriend's apartment, undresses and gets into bed, perhaps anticipating sex. But at the last minute she gets cold feet and says 'Stop!'. The young man, in the heat of the moment, is unable to restrain himself and carries on.

"The victim surely shares a part of the responsibility, if only for establishing reasonable expectations in her boyfriend's mind."

This shows that the Slut Walk is needed to change peoples perceptions of Rape. Rape is a disgustingly violent crime that will stay with the woman and affect everything she does in her life from that moment on long after the person who committed the crime actually serves whatever sentence that they get given. 

Whether it is a boyfriend or husband who wouldnt stop when you said no to the guy who attacks you when you are out and about it is still a violation of a woman and it is still a rape. A woman is NOT the husbands property and it is not his right to expect and demand sex whenever he wishes. A man is able to stop he just chooses not to as I dont think men understand the effect a rape has on a woman and just thinks it was a joke in the heat of the moment. They all also use the oh I couldnt stop myself excuse and the you put it on a plate you cant change your mind at the last minute. 

What kind of message is this sending the younger generation if the older generation are still coming out with tosh like this. If you get into bed with your girlfriend and she says no you can still have sex because she enticed you and how are you able to control yourself? 

Because Ken Clarke wants to free up prison you dont have the risk of a jail sentence because you knew the victim and she knew you so that makes it a lesser crime. Will the same be said now of date rape cases or cases where the woman is drunk and a man takes advantage? 

I think if men were put in the position - specifically Ken Clarke - they would think differently about rape. Maybe when he is having a shower at his fancy mens club someone needs to wait until he drops the soap and then show him exactly what it feels like to have things inserted into your body that you didnt consent to.

Apparently "Love is... 2,455 rows a year"

Apparently a survey was released yesterday that says the average couple rows 2,455 times a year. This works out to roughly 7 times a day.

Not listening - 112
Over spending - 109
Money - 108
Laziness - 105
One of you snoring - 102
Bills - 98
What to eat for dinner - 92
Driving too fast - 91
Walking past things that need to go upstairs - 90
Dirty house - 90
What to watch on television - 89
Disciplining the children - 88
Dirty washing left around the house - 88
When to have sex - 87
Taking each other for granted - 84
Childrens' bedtime - 83
Getting home late from work - 82
Not taking washing out  - 82
Getting in the way in the kitchen - 82
Treading mud into the house - 80
Spoiling the children - 79
Who should cook the evening meal - 79
Swearing in front of the children - 79
Not closing cupboard doors - 79
Parking the car - 77
Not answering your phone - 76
Failing to say please/thank you - 75
Not saying 'I love you' - 69

We bicker but I dont think 7 times a day there are days I could murder him, at least once a month. I cant really say we argue about the above stuff often and im surprised inlaws aren't on that list because I reckon before xmas we would have had 2,455 rows about them in a week.

Botox for kids mum loses custody

Kerry Campbell has lost custody of her 8 year old daughter after injecting her live on Good Morning America. Child Protection Officials took Britney over the weekend from her home in San Francisco while they investigate her mother for child abuse. Took them long enough.
more details to follow in the week.
Update

In an interview with The Sun Kerry has done a complete 180. After bragging about how she is injecting botox and fillers into her daughter, as well as waxing her, back in March she is now feeling the magnatude of what she has done to her daughter its just sad that her daughter had to be taken away for her to realise what she has been doing is abuse. I dont know whether I fully trust what she says, it seems to be a bit of I'll say what they want to hear to stop me being a hate figure and get my daughter back but dont believe it.

What Kerry says to The Sun:

 "I cannot put into words the remorse I feel.

I am going to seek therapy for my obsession with looks so I will no longer push my insecurities about appearance on to her.

I will not use Botox on her ever again.

I honestly felt I was helping her. I regret doing it and remain committed to being a good mother and being reunited with my daughter.

I never wanted to harm Britney in any way and I thought I was helping her.

What has happened is devastating and I realise now that I was wrong.

I realise now what I did was wrong. I was so consumed with making Britney a star that I didn't realise how bad my behaviour was.

I am not emotionally unstable or an evil mother. Britney is the light of my life and I was trying to help her.

I can no longer bring myself to look at the comments on websites covering the story. It makes me feel like I am being beaten up.

I want Sun readers to know that I love my daughter with all my heart. People have said so many horrible things about me, when all I wanted was the best for my child."

One thing that is true, she definitely needs help and whereas she may not be an evil mother she isnt a good one. It will take more than I'm sorry to make her a good mother, that is even if she is allowed to have her daughter back although it has been mentioned that supervised visits would be the start of the family repairing itself. However I am slightly worried when a family member has been quoted saying:

"Kerry is a fantastic mother and she was simply trying to give her daughter a leg-up. Britney has shown absolutely no ill effects from the treatment and has always been a happy child.

"To say she is being abused is plain ridiculous." 

Its abuse when you inject poison into your child. Its abuse when you cause them pain for no reason (depending where she waxes it hurts as does getting injected by a needle). It is also abuse when you mess with your 8 year old daughters head and distort their vision of themselves. That poor girl will hopefully recover and not have any issues with her face and body but the chances of that are slim unless she is given the support that she is beautiful and doesnt need poison to make her so. 

 

Stupid In Laws

Well since last year I have stopped all contact with hubbys brother after a nasty argument that was started by something that didnt even involve him and his wife but they decided to get involved and make a thing, with doing this other things came out and so came the exclusion from monkey and my life. Hubby is able to see his niece and nephew whenever he so chooses even their parents for that matter but monkey is not. Now it may not be fair but since this has been in place its been peaceful to some extent at our house. Not that we saw them all that often before this. 

Its their youngests birthday in a couple of weeks and hubby texted to see what he could get and you would not believe the reply. Apparently as their youngest has never met monkey (which is a lie for starters they were just both too little to remember) there is no point in buying presents. Now Im happy about this because they buy stupid or crappy gifts anyway (a talking photo frame for a 9 month old for xmas with a photo of their kids in - seriously who does that? Oh and a cheap plastic drum and an ugly pooh brown outfit when monkey is in pale blues, disney or dungarees - all of which can be picked up for cheaper than the outfit they bought) Whereas I spent ages (yes I did) trying to find the best value for the money and the best toys for the money for their xmas and birthdays. To deny my hubby of getting something for his brothers child something on their first birthday is ridiculous and Im glad that he sent that back in the text although I believe the words prickish were involved. 

I do like that the longer this exclusion goes on the more idiotic they react which just goes toward my original argument of why I dont want my monkey around them. They are toxic people who use those around them and to be honest Im glad they are out of my life.